The simplest solution is usually the correct one.
But this isn’t always true when it comes to people. We are exceedingly complex; emotionally, socially, psychologically. Humans are influenced by internal, unseen drivers just as much (if not more) than obvious external stimuli.
The problem is not that the method of Ockham’s razor is flawed. The issue is that there is typically insufficient data to arrive at reasonable assumptions in the first place.
I love my wife dearly, but I just don’t understand her sometimes. I’m sure she would say the same of me as well. Most of the time we try to be honest and open with one another, but it isn’t always easy.
I have recently had to deal with the death of my dog, Sandy. She was very important to me and it has been a difficult recovery. I don’t always show things the same way that my wife expects me to, and she interprets that as a different emotion. Likewise, she tries coping with the loss in ways that I can’t understand.
As a result, based on the data we have observed, we have made assumptions about one another. Those assumptions led us to believe that our assessments of one another were accurate because they were the simplest of the solutions. However, our assumptions were wrong, based on a misinterpretation of the data, and we have had to engage in more open dialogue to better understand one another through our grieving processes.
This is true in many personal situations when interacting with friends, family, and acquaintances. We make assumptions that lead to judgment. It is natural. It’s human. It’s complicated.
We often forget that people are people. We try to separate work from home, but that doesn’t really happen. We have a hard time relating to people that we simply don’t know well. We may be having a rough day and then someone asks something of us that is troublesome and we immediately jump to conclusions about motive and method.
Solving problems at work is easier when it is about a machine, a program or a system. Those things don’t muddy the waters with emotion and intellect. They simply work. People, on the other hand, react, anticipate, judge, emote, and in general, complicate the work environment. This level of complexity can be a bit much and the data is too intricate to fully understand. As a result we make assumptions about people, but our assumptions can lead us astray.
A Good Assumption
I have found my own razor when working with others.
This person’s intentions were right and good unless otherwise proven.
By using this razor I have simplified my life. It has prompted me to ask questions, get to know people, and expect decency from others. It has changed my perspective of people. And I firmly believe it is true.
I challenge you to take one week and apply this razor to your life. See if it changes you.